"Lost and Turned Out"

Okay I have to admit I never thought in a million years I would find my true love and soulmate......but I did. I'm in love with a wonderful man. He loves me for me, he treats my daughter like she's his own, he takes care of me and he makes sure I don't want for anything. Now I know I have trust issues and sometimes he did suspicious things. I've went through his phone and saw things that made me even more suspicious of his actions. But in the recent months I honestly believe he IS NOT CHEATING OR BEING DECEPTIVE AT ALL. However, a part of me just can't let go of my own hang ups and insecurities. Dammit ladies why do we do this to ourselves! I have a really good man and I'm still guarding my heart but from what.....love? Well not anymore. I'm letting all of the trust issues go and trusting him with my heart. I know he won't break it :-)

FINAL THOUGHT: If you're in a loving, committed relationship DO NOT create problems........trust me you will have plenty of them to work through. Live and let love.

"(Wo)Man in the Mirror"

Do you know what I can't stand? People who make judgemental comments about people just to make themselves feel better about their own shi**y life. I mean how is it that someone who has had an STD on five or six different occasions has something negative to say about EVERYBODY! It doesn't even matter what it is.....the way a girl dresses, the choices she makes, how many children she has, etc etc etc. Get real! You are no one to talk about another womans life when your own is so fu**ed up.
FINAL THOUGHT: Before passing judgement on someone else's home make sure your floors are clean, and the laundry and dishes are done.

Chances Are.....He Doesn't Love Her

So I know this girl and well I have to say she is by far the dumbest girl I know. Everybody has that one friend who just does some of the dumbest sh*t. Well this girl let's her boyfriend completely run over her. She takes care of him: paying his phone bills, clothes, haircuts, going out, etc. Now what does he do in return.......HE CHEATS! Go figure, give a man your all and he takes it literally and takes it for granted. I've tried talking sense into this poor child but all she can say is "I'm in love with him." so pathetic I tell you. I swear he's gonna make her a statistic....the kind no one wants to be. (Know your STATUS!) She even got his sorry ass name tatooed on her as proof to the world that she really is dumb.
Final thought: If you are with a man for an extended period of time and he rarely ever says those three little words that mean so much.....chances are he doesn't love you. Give it up and move on. Don't make yourself look even dumber than you already do.

Smh in disbelief

Okay people, the thing is I used to have a different blog but for numerous reasons I have been forced to create a new blog. Yay me.......I guess. So stay tuned for my racey blogs.....guaranteed to keep u entertained *wink* *wink*